Saturday, May 5, 2012

Morals, Manners and Focusing

Saturday, May 5, 2012
I donno what is wrong with me these days,, I seem to have lost my manners and morals.. Not really loose them but they kinda get frozen in the current situation then when all is said and done, I wonder like why did I ever do that..

Example: a friend introduced me to her mom,, I didn’t stand to greet her and I was like “sup, how are you doing?” like WTF since when? Where is the manner? Where is the respect.. I really have no idea what was going on through my head at that moment and I really wasn’t thinking.. I was flabbergast by my action. Honestly I have no idea what happened there.. It’s like I was playing tough or saying I don’t care.. I really can’t understand why I did that.. Next thing, I told my friend where is your mom I need to talk to her, so she points out her mom again, and I go to her mom and I apologies and I ask for her forgiveness and I said sorry and I really donno what got into me..

These days I’ve been acting a lot out of character it’s like I can’t control the outcome although I know what is the correct thing to do yet I don’t seem to follow it..

Another thing, I don’t seem to able to focus.. When people talk to me, I tend to forget about it and I wouldn’t even remember who it was or what the hell I was saying.. I have a memory span that is worse than a gold fish.. I really don’t know what is wrong..

2 problems I am dealing with right now. The lack of my morals and manners response and the focusing issue.. and i still cant connect to people much.. i feel like i am suffocating when i do that..

You’d say maybe I’m thinking a lot or have a lot in mind, it’s quite the opposite.. Everything is falling into place and things are getting better..

I need my doctor..

Somebody HELP ME

:’(

7 Voices:

Nostalgia

you said as if you're burnt out loomie .. i mean i dont know about the manner thing, i mean is it a one time thing ? probably you feel stressed out or pressured and u just dont care anymore
the inattention problem is SOOO COMMON now days .. its because we are overwhelmed by how fast life is going .. id say its a sign of stress but guess then all of us are strssed after all .

Sweetheart Diary

I would admit here that I am the same these days, I am running out of manners. It wasn't like this before. But I really feel that I have lost what people admired in me. I have we both overcome this situation soon, InshaAllah. May Allah guide us all and open our minds.

Ambrosial

Somehow I can relate to this.. If it's a "one time" incident then don't worry about it. I believe its due to feeling stressed, and frustrated that you reach a point where you just don't care for a moment or give a shit about anyone.. 3adi tra it happens..

I experienced a short phase of that, I started questioning morals, and manners, and then decided to straighten up my act, and deal with what was going on in my head.

The "focus" thing was something I went though for a whole term in Uni. it was scary.. I would space out, forget things, they address me, and I don't hear them.. I would start talking and then just suddenly in the middle of the conversation, I'd stop, cause I don't know what I'm talking about! ;p

It's alright, whatever it is.. it'll pass inshallah don't worry. Maybe you need a change in your lifestyle :)

Wish I could help wallah ;*

♥●• İzdihër •●♥

It is OK, standy :)
Who is is Doc ?

Anonymous

i think you should always think that the people you are dealing with have nothing to do with what is going on with you .. and second put yourself in their shoes.. someone treats you that way.

also how many times will you be sharing stuff with someone who is not a good listener or attentive to you? not many..... dont distant people because of stress.. but use people to distant your stress.

PrimaDonna

I think it's normal!

I mean I wouldn't say you lost your morals, thats pretty strong, losing morals would mean that you'd be sleeping around, or drinking excessively or lying about everything and other such things down that dark path.

You had a slip! We all do, the number of times I said something only to realize I was rude is countless. I would go home think about it and think twice about what to say the next time.

Its a growing up process, do you think all those composed older women were born this way? No, it took them years of slips and mistakes to gather they're wits and be composed.

I think your still you and thats wonderful.

Best of luck!

PrimaDonna

I think it's normal!

I mean I wouldn't say you lost your morals, thats pretty strong, losing morals would mean that you'd be sleeping around, or drinking excessively or lying about everything and other such things down that dark path.

You had a slip! We all do, the number of times I said something only to realize I was rude is countless. I would go home think about it and think twice about what to say the next time.

Its a growing up process, do you think all those composed older women were born this way? No, it took them years of slips and mistakes to gather they're wits and be composed.

I think your still you and thats wonderful.

Best of luck!

 
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