How Fair Is This??!!

Sometimes I really don’t understand human behaviour.. Ya3ni what are you guys thinking when you are doing these actions? Really!! You want drama or you just want to see how far you can push someone or the amount of shock and damage that you can achieve to the poor person!!

I really don’t get people.. wallah I don’t get it…

Scenario One:
My cousin died last week in a car accident (allah yer7amo) around 2 am.. At 3:30 am I get a message from his sister that he died.. (If I was in her place I don’t think I will be able to send a message).. So I go to the 3azza and I see her and I try to cheer her up.. I wasn’t close to her brother, last I saw him maybe it was 2 years or so back.. Now I see her little sister, which is around 20-23 years old.. I am not sure.. el mohim, she looks so distance and in shock and i totally understands how she feels, she out of the country and when she came back for 2 days she didn’t see her brother and next thing you know he died! I feel so sorry and I really cant imagine what she is going through.. As if that is not enough.. Look at what people did to this poor girl..

She is working in an airline night shift.. Her brother was suppose to pick her up at 7am when she finishes her work.. She gets a call at 2 or 3 am telling her that they are coming to pick her up, her brother was involved in an accident and she needs to come home.. So they pick her up and all the way they told her NOTHING!! They didn’t address the issue that her brother died already.. So she enters the house and imagine what was the first thing that she sees!! YES KAFAN A’7OOHA!!! IMAGINE!! La o el bint ma mustaw3iba.. She was like “what is this? What is happening?” ya3ni you don’t see him and in the end when you come to see him you see him like that!!

Ya jama3a.. ya nas wallah tara ma zain!! This amount of shock mal faja2 is not good.. a lot of damage happens.. Zain before you take her in the house tell her badal she goes in and see this in front of her.. I don’t blame her if she couldn’t sleep or have nightmares!! Wallah 7aram….i can’t believe they actually did that to her!!!


Scenario Two:
My friends sister.. She is 37, not married.. About 3 weeks ago she started complaining that she has pains and she cant breath and stuff.. So they take her to the hospital and of course el 7okooma ma t8a9ar in distributing pain killers for each and every disease or pain you have.. mafi ‘3air panadol, olfen and take a rest and come back in a month if it is still there.. el mohim.. I donno what happened they went back and she was getting worse and now she is mnawoma in ICU if I am not mistaken.. They said they found a tumour and she needs to be hospitalised..

Zain, all this ma8ulna shay!! Ok.. So maskeena aish 6ala3 feeha.. She has cancer.. One of her ovary is gone and its already spread in her other ovary and kidney and it already reached her thighs.. al7een ana I heard this, I called my friend and told her lets go visit her.. So my friend calls her sister and tells her we will go today Inshallah at say 4pm to visit her.. ela she tells her.. “ok but don’t put perfume coz she has problems in breathing and don’t address her illness and tell her anything coz she doesn’t know what she has and what is happening” na3am ya’7ti??? She is old enough right? I mean she can understand and handle whatever god gives her right? Yan3i el ensan yekoon fi iman right? Laish ya3ni you dont tell her??? She suspects eno fi shay coz one of her brothers entered the room and as soon as he saw her he started crying so hard!!

Ya jama3a come on!!! El mara’9 7aq tara.. She deserves to know the truth.. She is old enough to understand.. This is HER life!! You can’t do that to her!!!!

Wallah qahar how people are acting!!